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This blog post is my attempt to clarify the angle I take on my blogs. There is a misunderstanding and that is my fault for not being clear in the way I come across. 

Like anyone else I have what I see as normal  day to day problems. I blog about this and at times put these under magnifying glass. That is just the way I am. 

My blogs are both personal and business related. I just  blog about whatever moves me that day. I do not have a plan what I blog about. It is just a feeling I get to blog on a particular topic. 

Obviously the key difference is I air my day to day experience. One of he downside of this is I came across as having major problems needing psychological l help. This is not the case. My tendency is to over analyse the situation. As a result I come across as having major psychological problems. I have been checked out in all ways possible and there is nothing medically or mentally wrong with me aside from day to day frustrations that life brings. 

I think I will take some time off blogging to reflect on whether to make this a blog on business topics only.  

With respect I do not want a discussion on the state of my mental health. As I mentioned earlier I have been medically checked out.

 

 

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Flash Gordon's picture

We're all mad in some way    3 thanks

Flash Gordon | | Permalink

I wouldn't worry FT, there are people (well, person singular) on here with far greater psychological problems than any you could ever be mistakenly credited with!!

Maybe you do over-analyse sometimes. Maybe - it's all subjective. But analysing isn't always a bad thing. At least you recognise when you have something that needs addressing. You could pretend it doesn't exist and stick your head in the sand. Where would that get you? Besides, given the amount of interest your blog posts get you must be talking about subjects that others are thinking about and difficulties that they've either faced in the past or are facing now (or may even face in the future).

Carry on sharing the details with us, it obviously helps you and I'm guessing that it helps others too. Although it's currently distracting me from having a shower and doing all the things I planned to do this evening!

ShirleyM's picture

I agree with Flash    2 thanks

ShirleyM | | Permalink

... on all counts!

Old Greying Accountant's picture

Me three ...    2 thanks

Old Greying Acc... | | Permalink

... write what you want, how you want.

I think you are admired on here for your candour, we all feel as you at times but are too reserved to admit it, or we have wives/husbands etc. whom we can rant at.

It is not all one way, I think you will find many get as much from your blogs as you as the blog posts broach topics pertinent to their lives too.

Old Greying Accountant's picture

Whatever you blog ...    2 thanks

Old Greying Acc... | | Permalink

... just remember rule 14.

Don't stop blogging...    1 thanks

Lilac1 | | Permalink

I enjoy reading them whether they're business related or personal.

ShirleyM's picture

lol @OGA    1 thanks

ShirleyM | | Permalink

I had to look up Rule 14!

Paul Scholes's picture

Better out than in    1 thanks

Paul Scholes | | Permalink

Others made the point on a recent blog that getting stuff down on paper (well you know what I mean) is a great way to export stress, anxiety & confusion.  This has always, for me, been a great safety valve and far better than trying to put it in a box and nail down the lid, or control/master emotions as you wondered.

Yes, some emotions, even powerful ones, flare and drop off of their own accord however the ones associated with core issues (upbringing, relationships, fears, insecurity, VAT returns etc) are there for a purpose and so trying to sit on them can make things worse long term.

Keep your pencil sharp and scribble all you want, like ITV we can always change channel (sorry) ;o)

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This blog is intended to reflect the highs and lows that I face day to day working as a sole practitioner.

I tend to blog regularly. I don't know why, but there is a strong need in me to blog my every day experience. I have no idea how long this will last.

All I can say is It helps me to put my thoughts, feelings and views on a blog. When writing I am not too concerned about spelling, grammar or even how I come across. I feel that if I worry about these areas, the subject matter I want to put across will not reflect how I am thinking and feeling at the time.

My blogs reflect the type of person I am. That is the nature of blogging. It is meant to reflect views and thoughts of the blogger.

I will not be to everyone's tastes. Thankfully AW has a good variety of bloggers. This means there are more than likely to be blogs more in keeping with your taste.

I am humbled by the fact that my blog is actually read! Not only this but some readers go as far as commenting.

Thank you for reading my blogs and commenting. I really do appreciate it.