Take action now to beat burnout
As the busy season lumbers into view, Lucy Cohen offers some practical and effective tips to help you banish burnout.
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Sorry to hear you are feeling this way. The deadlines aren’t tight though and just don’t take on demanding clients. Taking control is empowering.
I always do the gardening. It provides some exercise, fresh air and some relaxation time. Best medicine out there. Yes, it's a chore, but gives me some quiet valuable down time.
Same could be true of cleaning, I.e
Exercise, for some, but I hate it.
I have a client (legal professional) who employs a chauffeur, perhaps Lucy should add one to her payroll.
It is 'a personal muddled statement', but I think that it paints a relatable picture and god for thought.
Am I reading this right? Is it really that controversial if someone hires a cleaner or a gardener? Where do we draw the line? Should we be up in arms if someone pays for a window cleaner?
Richard, Accountant's humour is an acquired taste that doesn't suit everyone's palate. We are not up in arms merely playfully having fun at the articles expense.
*writer's expense.
Speaking as a chartered accountant, I do not share your "taste" in "humour" johnjenkins. I am glad to see your most offensive personal comment on this article has now been deleted.
Amy, I have dealt with the deletion of my "non personal" comment in a private post but as you have mentioned it I will explain it to you.
It is a well known fact that to relieve stress some people :- go to a spa, go on a shopping spree or have their hair done. My post was merely a play on words chauffeur/coiffeur and was not intended to directly offend Lucy.
IMHO this article is far too personal and should not have been posted.
I'll be sunning myself in Thailand for most of January. April and May are my busiest months as clients want to know where they stand.
I think these sorts of articles should be written by a trained 'psychotherapist or 'psychiatrist'
If you are depressed or are having any 'mental health issues' please talk to a professional.
I would say, but this is a personal opinion, if you are feeling very stressed or 'burnt out' because you have to fill out a few tax returns by the deadline, this should not really in normal circumstances be causing you particular grief.
We all have different levels of resilience and there is a danger people talk themselves into being stressed.
Make sure you have a life and activities outside of work (very important), and don't take yourself or your work too seriously!
But seek professional help if it is all getting too much!
Hi Indomitable,
You make a good point about seeking professional help and I agree about the need for having fulfilling activities outside of work.
I must respond though to the point that these sort of articles should be written by a trained psychotherapist. AccountingWEB is a community. It's what makes the site great.
Across the site AccountingWEB members share their problems and challenges and also their approaches and techniques in dealing with these challenges. That is exactly what Lucy has done here.
Sorry Richard, but I do think it important that people with 'mental health' issues seek advice from trained professionals in this area
Not sure that 'not thinking' about what to wear, eating ready meals (very unhealthy) and having personal assistants to do the gardening and chores are a way of avoiding burnout.
I especially have an issue with not cooking a meal for yourself and family. So what is the author advocating here?
"But what if you just don’t have the time or energy to be whipping up wholesome dishes in your kitchen? Living off processed food or takeout is less than ideal, but so is skipping meals"
Make time! You and your family's health is far more important than some self-imposed deadline.
I have always found gardening very therapeutic (not so much cleaning though). But my point is you need to spend more time 'out' of your business not in it.
The point of the article appears to me to advocate freeing up time to spend more time in the business, or am I reading it wrong?
My advice is the same if you are feeling excessively stressed or 'burnt out' seek professional help
"meal replacement options" where you add water, i think these should also in the category of processed foods.
Looks like an article where someone is working #### backwards. How many times have we heard of self inflicted pressure ? A few tips :-
~ Don't fall into the trap of creating a busy season. Educate your clients to give what you want ,
when you want.
~Spend less time worrying about how fashionable you look - or may not look, as may be the case.
And don't concern yourself with what Jobs & Zuckerberg - or any other multi billionaires - are
wearing. They don't care what problems you have in clothing.
~ For that matter , consider whether the awards ceremonies you dress up for and attend are helpful - or detrimental to running your business.
~ Try and sort out the clutter and muddles in your house. It's amazing how much more efficient you
become in a neat and tidy envoronment. It's particularly worrying to have to call in a company
from time to time to sort out this mess. Consider therapy if this is a problem
~ Do a bit of gardening rather than pay someone . Better still get an allotment. It's therapeutic and a
healthy break from work.
~ With the savings from paying for these domestic chores, take someone on in the business to guide
you in your shortcomings at work.
~ Eat sensibly. Don't rely on junk crap. It's absolutely ridiculous to suggest anyhing but
advocating any long term reliance on ''alternative'' nutrition.
~ Wind down with a pint or two , a G & T or a glass of wine. I've always found this a solution to
burnout.
Great article, Lucy! So important to do what we can to avoid burnout during busy periods but it's all too easy to forget, so thanks for the reminder.
I too am a huge fan of meal prep kits - meal planning for the kids is as much as I can handle on top of work, life admin and everything in between. Without the meal prep kits I often fell into the trap of skipping my own meals or unhealthy takeaways. The "just add water" options are also perfect for staying on top of nutrition when I don't have time to prepare a healthy lunch.
Interesting that so many people are recommending gardening as therapy. Personally I detest gardening, I'm rubbish at it and for me it's the opposite of therapeutic. I'd rather pay a gardener and go for a run to clear my head.
Anyway, the point that most people seem to be missing here is that we can all make small changes to our lifestyle, which will of course be different depending on our individual situation and preferences, but it's important to open that conversation and get people thinking about it.
I don't think people are missing the point in what is really a muddled ramble rather than an article. It also sounds incredibly unhealthy in parts.
I have a cleaner and gardener to whom I have been married for 41 years. Very good and costs me nothing, apart from fact that I do his tax return too! But as I do all the calculations it was filed in August.
Seriously though there were some really good points. You have to decide what works for you and we are all different. I love to cook and it is my relaxation so I do prepare proper meals at the weekend for the week ahead (but I do that all year anyway to save time in the evenings) and as I am now over 60 I stop work at 6pm and do not work after then. Just too tiring to do more than a 9 hour day (8am to 6pm less a proper break for lunch for those who say my maths are wrong) and all that happens is that you make mistakes.
I will NOT compromise on physical activity - swimming, badminton and light gardening are what I do and that goes for January as well - though may be not on the 31st!
You have to keep well, eat properly and get enough sleep. After all clients aren't going to look after you and why should your nearest and dearest have to put up with the anger you would like to vent on those lovely tardy people who wait until 25 January before giving you their details (that you have chased umpteen times already) and then chasing you every 5 minutes for an update .
And NEVER do dry January or go on a diet- January is depressing enough without adding to the misery. Wait until February if you must.
We do ourselves no favours burning out, just cut out all those onerous clients whose telephone calls even cause you high anxiety , you know the ones , working life then becomes bearable
"I'm gonna tell you how it's gonna be.
You're gonna give your work to me
I'm gonna work all night and day
well work is work, I'll not fade away"
Good conversation to start. My response in this situation (burnout, not just being busy) would actually be to stop and think about how to stop this situation happening again and make a decision. It might only take 30 mins and if that means you don't meet your deadline so be it. Otherwise it's too easy to let it happen again.