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When client relationships go south

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A recent Any Answers thread has left many in the AccountingWEB community wondering just where contractual obligations end and prioritising your sanity begins.

21st Mar 2022
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The client/practitioner relationship has always been a tricky balancing act for firms to contend with. If left unchecked, agents can quite easily find themselves carrying out work for individuals who do not respect their expertise as qualified professionals. 

Moboffsol is one such user who has found themselves stuck between their contractual duties and a bothersome client, and was left posing the question to our Any Answers community: is simply reneging the end of a contract the ethical thing to do in order to escape a particularly irksome client?

Is it ethical?

“I have been lucky enough to have had good relationships with all my clients, until recently,” Moboffsol said, adding that the client in question has been “rude, awkward, over-demanding, late sending info and very unorganised.” 

While the client had recently decided to work with a different agent, the contributor pondered the ethics of simply closing up shop to the individual and moving on without finishing their contractual duties, as the emotional toll of working with said client seemed to far outweigh their obligations to them.

Interestingly enough, this sparked a lively debate among users who found themselves split between those who believe the immutable contractual duties of an agent must be upheld and those who argued that mental health and one’s wellbeing should always come first.

“He fired you. I suggest that subject to notice, all obligations end,” wrote Any Answers user JamesDS. Contributor indomitable concurred with this statement, adding that firms should “never accept bad behaviour, ever”. 

On the other hand, while many users sympathised with the agent about their troubles with nasty clients, some were still adamant that the contract needed to be upheld. “Whether you like the situation or not, this client is making the transfer process as smooth as possible by providing a very reasonable notice period,” wrote veteran contributor rmillaree. “You had your chance to disengage but did not do so.”

Circumventing the ethics of the question altogether, AA regular CalculatorBoy was quick to note that the problem in question arises due to “contractual issues” asking the OP “what have you agreed in the letter of engagement?”

Setting boundaries

The fact that a consensus was far from reached within the community highlights the need for practitioners to set clear personal and contractual boundaries with their clients in order to prevent this kind of situation from happening in the future. 

In a recent People Matters episode on AccountingWEB Live, Mazuma co-founder Lucy Cohen sympathised with the community on dealing with problem clients, rattling off a range of reasons why practitioners allow the individuals they work for to treat them disrespectfully.

However, Cohen was also keen to point out the importance of setting boundaries on what does and doesn’t fly when it comes to your practice, championing being courageous enough to say no when lines are crossed.

“When you’re saying yes, whether out of fear or out of obligation, you’re rating that other person’s needs above your own; this can be a slippery slope.” Cohen said. 

Jumping off from this point, Cohen emphasises the importance of “setting boundaries” by “giving yourself permission to say no” to clients in order to protect your mental health and avoid excess stress. 

The Any Answers community seemed to agree with the ideas Cohen touched upon, with JamesDS noting that the original poster was a victim of a “classic you-reap-what-you-sow case. You allowed him to behave poorly, and now you have to be hard on him to protect your sanity/billings”.

Cutting clients loose

However, when communication completely breaks down, sometimes cutting clients loose is the only option left for the burnt out practitioner. 

While contributors were undecided on the ethics of reneging on a contract in order to cut ties with a troublesome client, many were in agreement that they felt better once they had finally rid themselves of what can be an extremely stressful part of their job.

Talking on the subject, user Catherine Newman said that it was a “relief to not have an ex-client expect me to print off all of his invoices, turn up in the evening or week-end or have to argue with him”.

Director of OmniPro Des O’Neil agreed with this assessment during this morning's episode of Client Confidential with Lucy Cohen, arguing that it is essential for firms to work with the right clients for their business and having a keen understanding of when to let them go.

“As we mature we should always have a red velvet policy,” O’Neil said. “Ask yourself ‘what are the behaviours and attributes that are acceptable and what are not?’”

In order to decipher where the velvet rope lies, O’Neil structures his clients into A,B,C or D grades. “D grade clients are the dumpable duds, some of them are incurable and they are just not going to work for you.”

For these clients O’Neil believes it is important to allow both yourself and the client to move on in good faith, noting that agents change as time goes on, and clients who may have been good for your practice for 10 years can easily become a millstone around the neck. 

O’Neil concluded, “It’s about saying to your client ‘look, if we go on the way we are, I won’t be able to provide you with the service you require and deserve - it’s not you, it’s me.”

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By mkowl
22nd Mar 2022 10:09

The hardest bit is where your new clients come from recommendations "sacking" one of them you have to remember the inter-connections and inadvertently upsetting the applecart. I am probably too soft hearted at times as well, where the client is an admin mess, definitely lose money fee v time but she makes you laugh, her back story is inspiring (HIV acquired thru a dubious blood transfusion) and she recommended others to us. I do this business to make money of course but its the people who I help as well.

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By Barry Adams
22nd Mar 2022 13:38

I can remember apologising to a great client who referred someone who effectively audited our work and quoted legislation at us only to be told that "he was a bit of an awkward ###£$%"

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By Michael Beaver
22nd Mar 2022 13:10

I've gotten quite ruthless at disengaging clients who drag us down. I always see this as an opportunity to go out and find a new one we like more. Someone on here many years ago put it best: "If, when a client calls you, your heart sinks when you see their name or number on your phone every single time, then it's time to say goodbye to them."

So far since the end of tax season we've disengaged clients for the following reasons:

1. One client with fairly simple affairs that will only talk to me as the owner of the practice, rather than any of my eminently qualified staff, as she thinks she deserves and is paying for 'only the best'.
2. One client who only joined recently. We set out advice on sole trader vs incorporating, spent two separate one hour sessions going through the pros and cons. She has since spoken to every other (unqualified) person she can talk to, so we find ourselves defending our advice against the 'advice' from 'the man at the pub' type people over and over again.
3. Payroll only client who never stuck to the deadlines that they had agreed, and always insisted on last minute changes even when I was unavailable. Including once when I was at a funeral.
4. One client who always demanded prompt service but for the third year in a row we were chasing her unpaid invoice 9 months after it was issued.

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By mkowl
22nd Mar 2022 16:09

I should be more ruthless that's for sure. There are definitely a few that tick those boxes. But one is a long standing client, elderly chap probably in early stages of dementia and the fact he asks the same question, forgets the answers to others, what do you do. I can't abandon him.

Another new client - a referral from an IFA who might strike out to start out on his own and I get that good job - went through every box and page of her tax return and it had to be with me.

My fave unintended consequence was the grown up son client who I basically sacked on the 31st Jan for being rude and aggressive to staff and me, got his Mum who just happened to be best friends with the wife of my old boss, to ring up and tell me not to be nasty to her son. I then got grief from said wife, then my old boss because he got grief from both of em.

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